Pastor-teacher Don Hargrove
Faith Bible Church
Wednesday, August 10, 2010
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Salvation,
2 Cor. 5:17. Spirituality, 1 Cor. 3:1-4
with Gal. 2:20. Spiritual maturity, Acts 20:27-33.
LIFE OF DAVID – Part 44
THE PERNICIOUSNESS OF JEALOUSY
A. 1 Samuel
18:1-16
1. Jonathan’s respect and great love for David, 1-4
2. God’s promotion of David, 18:5-16
B.
Jealousy
1. Jealousy is one of the most pernicious sins in
the human race.
2. The sin of jealousy actually predates human
history and was the dominant sin in the fall of Lucifer, cf. Eze 28; Isa 14:12-14.
3. Jealousy is only used positively in two ways
where it refers to a sense of devout affection and a love free from any mixture
of arrogance, evil, or sin.
a. Jealousy as an ardent
possessive love of God
b. Jealousy as an ardent
limited-possessive love among a husband and a wife—RM-RW love, SOS 8:6
4. All other instances of jealousy
in the Bible refer to the sin and evil of jealousy which always includes a vast
complex of mental attitude and emotional sins related to pride, arrogance,
possessiveness, self-absorption, insecurity, fear, suspicion and tyranny.
5. The sin of jealousy is demonic in
nature and is a chief strategy in the kingdom of darkness to attack and destroy
believers and control the human race, 1 John 3:12-15; James 3:12-14.
6. Jealousy is one of the strongest
of MAS as far as negative power and destructiveness, Prov. 14:30; 27:3-4;
7.
Jealousy as a MAS demands exclusive
devotion on the part of others toward you and is intolerant of rivalry.
8.
Jealousy is discontent with the blessings, successes, or status symbols of
other people.
9. Jealousy is resentment of the attractiveness
or approbation that a person receives.
10. Jealousy is selfishness and self-absorption
and lacks capacity for authentic love.
11. Jealousy includes fear of losing out on
affection, approbation and/or love.
12.
Jealousy is tyranny over the volition and freedom of another person.
13. Jealousy is irrational and if left unchecked
will lead to suspicions, delusions, psychosis, and neurosis.
14.
In jealousy a person moves into emotional domination of the soul wherein they
define reality and themselves in terms of their moods and emotional
experiences.
15. Rejection of Bible doctrine leads to
jealousy, 1 Tim 6:3.
16.
Some Christians and Christian ministries are motivated by jealousy—and of
course money, Philip 1:15.
17.
Jealousy causes people to reject the gospel and the teaching of the Word of
God, Acts 13:44; 17:2-4.
18.
It was out of jealousy that the religious leaders rejected Jesus Christ, Mark
15:10.
19.
It was out of jealousy that Joseph’s brothers sold him into slavery, Acts 7:9.
20. It was out of jealousy that Cain
killed his brother Abel, Gen 4.
21.
Anytime a believer lives in jealousy, he is living like a pagan, 1 Cor 3:3; Rom 1:28-29.
22. Jealousy is a sure sign that the believer is
not living the spiritual life— especially in regard to spiritual virtue love, 1
Cor. 13:4.